My Journey Into Selling Used Panties & Becoming a Sex Worker While Pregnant

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Let me start off by introducing myself, I’m Jade Minx but some of you know me as daddyslilminx on here. I am a full-time stay-at-home mom, married, and currently 8 months pregnant! I started my journey into selling used panties and sex work when I was only a few months along.

I have never been an overconfident person due to past abusive relationships and other personal life situations. But deciding to start this line of work, especially while pregnant was one of the best decisions I have ever made, not only for myself but also for my confidence.

Sex Work While Pregnant & The Ups and Downs

I think that one of the biggest things I’ve noticed about getting into this line of work while pregnant is the boost of confidence. I have never felt so sexy as I do at this moment in time, I still have my days don’t get me wrong, but I have a whole new appreciation for my body as a whole.

The way you change and grow through pregnancy can be really hard for women, and those who suffer from ED, body dysmorphia, and any other body image issues. I like many others hate seeing the number grow on the scale, or my stomach starting to gain stretch marks and all the other things they don’t warn you about.

This time around has been entirely different for me than my other pregnancies. I haven’t hated the belly growing because I’m excited to make new photosets as it gets bigger and document not only for myself but others how beautiful my body is.

I’m not checking the scale constantly because it’s just not that damn important. As someone who has suffered from severe depression and postpartum depression, I can’t wait to continue my journey after the baby has arrived. Having a partner and community like that of ATW who are all supportive and loving, makes the experience that much more inviting, special, and safe! Makes for a great environment to discover loving yourself and continuing to build that confidence!

One downside I have experienced is that I get burnt out a little quicker on things though. Like I said I still have my days, where I’m just not feeling the best or I’m mentally drained. Your body goes through so many changes not only physical but hormonally and mentally as well. It’s so important to know when to put things down and take a break.

There have been days I’m on every couple of hours to update my listings, or bio to improve my page, or to interact with the other buyers and sellers to build a presence. Then there are days where I hop on once or twice to check in and then just give myself the mental break I need.

It’s so easy to get wrapped up in this business with the stimulation of making sales, getting messages, and receiving compliments and love. It’s not always like that and you will have your days where you don’t get a ton of messages or have sales for a couple of days and it can be discouraging and take a toll.

You just have to remember to take that step back and realize that in this industry there are dry spells, and that it’s not you. It’s not a lack of hard work you’re putting into your listings, your post, your photos, etc. So learning how to separate one from the other is definitely a learning curve because having all those emotions already heightened while pregnant can make it even harder.

I’m so glad though that I decided to make this journey while pregnant because it has made my days when it’s hard to stay motivated in everyday life, to keep pushing even though I feel like crap, this has given me a new sense of confidence and power I never expected to have.

I love my body, knowing that I’m creating life, enjoying the “glow” that I have never felt with my other pregnancy experiences. I give a ton of credit to having a support system, and the kink community as a whole because you are allowed to explore your kinks, wants, desires, and fantasies without judgment or discrimination.

I’m allowed to express myself sexually into a time that can be viewed as less than sexy or a time when we should be slowing down to settle in. Enjoy your body, love the dimples, the curves, the stretch marks, the hair.

Start enjoying yourself for yourself as much as you enjoy giving pleasure to others! Love the growth and changes because you are sexy, bold, and beautiful. And don’t forget to allow yourself the time for self-care.

Thank you ATW community for the support you all have built here to allow others to build that confidence and self-love!

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