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Tidal I bet we all wish we could turn off notifications for this post. Its been 2 years.

OliviaLane Can you give me instructions on how to write a blog? I don't see anything on the site that shows how.

RadheRedHead Hi, I'd like to write a blog on pain a pleasure, a pathway to healing, or something similar. Can I do it?

MistressLacey Thank you,Tidal, I was curious. Selling at fairs is so different as they walk up and buy it off your table. With this I don't have to drive or lug things into a building.

Tidal @MistressLacey #1. To delete photos go to your profile, scroll down to photos, click 'view all images', click 'remove' at the bottom of any images you want to delete. #2. It is totally normal for it to take days, weeks, or even months to make your first sale here.

MistressLacey I have a question, well, two questions. I am new to this in regards to selling. I used to sell at fetish fairs, and doing it in person is way different. 1. I have looked everywhere and can't find anything on how to remove pictures. 2. How long did it take everyone to make a sale? Thank you ladies.

Tidal You guys need to send them a message directly not comment on this post.

Tidal @Cananon send admin a message and they will give you an email to send your blog submission to

CodyMcNay @Unmasque_me check blog on community guidelines/rules. From my understanding it wouldnt be though

Tidalwave679 @Unmasque_me nipples, full vulva, anus, full penis, and balls are supposed to be censored

Unmasque_me I'm new and I have a question so much needed help please-- Is it considered nudity if the nipples are not showing, or vagina lips covered by pubic hair (yes, i'm natural)? I don't want to be banned if I'm technically naked but tthe details above are covered.

Sissy4domme @Alexibun my writing is so bad it's just not funny. Sentences tend to run multiple lines which isn't good to read, and punctuation makes it worse

Alexibun @Sissy4domme Buyer experiences, yes, buyer overwhelm no. Sorry. You should write about it. 😊

Sissy4domme @Alexibun I did have a look, but there doesn't appear to be anything about how overwhelming the site and messages can be to a new user

Alexibun @Sissy4domme There are blogs from buyers, def check them out!

Sissy4domme Have you ever had anything from the buyers perspective, first coming onto the site and how they perceive the site and their experience in buying on the site?

MilfFootVixen1986 @PorcelainWitch23 thank you that means alot!

PorcelainWitch23 @MilfFootVixen1986 absolutely! Selling should always be a pleasure. Feel free to ask questions! I know most of us are happy to answer them.

MilfFootVixen1986 @PorcelainWitch23 thank you I will definitely check it out! I am soaking up all the info I can because I want to please my buyers and myself.

PorcelainWitch23 @MilfFootVixen1986 there's other really great blogs here that didn't quite seem to make it into this blog, I highly recommend the one written by @teacherbitch. There's some others that less about the general starting and security but more about the experience of selling that are also amazing. I highly recommend the blogs section to anyone new. There's really great information in them.

MilfFootVixen1986 @Mumscreationsbyd I was able to read a few of them yesterday and got side tracked reading the comments on here. I am VERY new to all of this and was super excited when I seen this because this was exactly what I was looking for to hopefully help me grown in the business.

Alexibun @TidalWave679 Yes, it's really helpful! I've sent it to so many new sellers when I've seen them shouting for help on the dash! I'm also thrilled that the podcast is listed as well, the more support for each other, the better experience for everyone. 😊

TidalWave679 Ignoring the drama in the comments - I'm super happy that my pricing guide will now be even more accessible to sellers, particularly newer sellers. When I first started I was incredibly overwhelmed and didn't know what my items were worth. That's why I created the guide in the first place.

XRubyRed @EncasedEmbraced Ugh that is SO disappointing to hear! Thank you for your support and solidarity. Let me know when that premade launches and I’ll be the first to buy it. I need more of your lovely self in my life. ❤️

ExquisiteOrchid Demand is high as fuck so where does this theory come into actual play

Alexibun @BrookesTreat My pricing would be higher if there was one. 🤣

PorcelainWitch23 @Sir_Ahmed 🥰 and this is the respect and understanding we are asking for! Thank you!

TidalWave679 @SexyCece exactly. The guides are a reference because when you join you don't know how to price your items and often under price on an extreme level.

MilfFootVixen1986 @TidalWave679 thank you!! So glad to be here

TidalWave679 @MilfFootVixen1986 welcome to the community! 🩷😊

MilfFootVixen1986 Definitely reading this! Just getting started and would love to really have this take off. 😍

TidalWave679 @Miss_Ophellia 👏👏👏👏👏

XRubyRed @Miss_Ophellia @PorcelainWitch23 @GingerPhoenix 💯 yes to all of this. And HOT TAKE for newer sellers: keeping your prices high allows you to make more money while doing less work. Basic math! I choose to get paid $100 for an hour’s work instead of charging $20 for the same thing and having to work 5 hours. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

TidalWave679 @XRubyRed 👏👏👏👏👏

PorcelainWitch23 @GingerPhoenix 👏👏🙌 all of this! Not everyone is going to work with every buyer. I know I'm quite picky in what I choose to do. Those that respect me and pay my prices get above and beyond my efforts to give them what they desire and spent their well earned money on. We deserve that respect.

GingerPhoenix My 2 cents on pricing: I know I'm worth so much more than what some people charge on ATW. They are, too, imho. I'm a professional amateur and don't give a fuck about the labels: my price is my price, and the reward is more than nice. Can't pay? Can't play. Just go on with your day. I'm here to slay. Many of us here are quite experienced, highly prized, and love the community! A rising tide lifts all ships and keeps economies running. There's plenty of free porn out there for the cheapskates and those with poorly-endowed wallets. For the rest of you, show respect and pay us fair prices for our work. Trust me - we're worth it. xx

GingerPhoenix So helpful, @Admin! xx Thank you to all the contributors! xx

BrookesTreat Kink is luxury, not necessity. Sellers shouldn’t have to undercharge in order to make sure buyers on a budget can afford their kink…we don’t owe anyone anything. If you can’t afford the kink, wait and come back when you can or find a seller offering it at your price. Just don’t bargain trying to guilt sellers into undercharging and potentially losing all profit in a sale, just because someone claims they can’t afford it.

PorcelainWitch23 @XRubyRed nailed it!! 👏 And this is why I like to do longer play contracts and not one off sessions or tasks. In reality the pay out is not worth the effort I put in for safe play.

CodyMcNay @XRubyRed yeah i get the purpose of it

XRubyRed @CodyMcNay People have absolutely been under-pricing themselves recently. That's why admin has posted these guides for sellers to better value themselves.

CodyMcNay @Alexibun ah i see. Theres a few price guides

CodyMcNay @Alexibun through the links on the blog

Alexibun @CodyMcNay Where did you see that? On Tidal's pricing guide it's $10 which is a common price.

CodyMcNay @XRubyRed ive had a few tasks before and never paid anywhere near that amount which is the only reason i questioned it

XRubyRed @CodyMcNay Buying a task bundle is often cheaper than buying a one-off task. The time it takes us to receive and reply to your message, understand your kinks/fetishes and hard limits in order to assign an accurate/safe task, and checking in afterward to confirm photo/video proof and provide aftercare.. is all absolutely worth $20-30.