Falling In Love with Your Sub

Seller Dom/sub Sellers’ Perspective Falling In Love with Your Sub

Have you ever wondered if it's possible to fall in love with your sub? Simple answer: Yes!

The Dating Stage

Starting a Domme / Sub relationship is almost like a real relationship, you can have your ups and downs, communication, spoiling, and many more. Ups and downs could be in the beginning as I call the “Dating Stage”, the domme tests the sub out and see if he's compatible with her fetishes and vice versa. Most includes money which, in the real world whoever you are on a date with would have to pay. Some pass the test and some fail. Subs are always looking to talk, they either talk about everyday simple life or any kinks they may have, either way they could be giving us more attention than our own spouses. They love giving us compliments, hearing the words beautiful, or goddess, definitely gives us a boost on our self-esteem. They are even here to be a shoulder to lean on if we are having a bad day. They listen to our likes and dislikes, and they do whatever it takes to make us happy. While they are giving us attention, we are letting them express who they really are, which they probably can't do in their day-to-day life. With that it's forming a special bond between the two.

The Spoiling Stage

The “Spoiling Stage”, as dommes our role is to demand things, but many subs tribute without needing to be told. Those are the ones I love, hearing the things you like and just sending items from either your wishlist, or just knowing their place is to be an ATM for you and all they want to do is send a tribute to make you happy. I’ve had some subs that even adopted a bill and paid my rent. That car note? He took care of it. phone bill? It’s all caught up. Some of our spouses couldn't or would never do that. Want your nails done? Yeah that sub will take care of it. Some subs are so reliable, and that is very attractive.

Falling in Love

What makes you fall more for your sub is maybe seeing a photo of them, mmm being blown away with how good they look. Yes, I know you shouldn't mix business with pleasure normally but in this industry you can. We’re human and us as women can't help but to like what we see if its good haha. Normal guys in the world want to dominate and make the rules, but now you have an attractive man who's your sub and he's willing to do whatever you say when you say it and pleasure and spoil you in whatever way you want. It can make any woman fall in love.

Attention is what we all crave, and a sub will make you their number one priority. They will put you above their spouse, they will drink water just so you can have your morning coffee. A sub that provides is a good sub that knows his place. Yes, you may have more than one sub, but there's always that one sub that has a special place in your heart. When he messages you, you get that smile. You just know he will either spoil you properly or say something that will uplift your spirits. Yes, we do a lot for them and give them a space to be themselves, but they do more for us then we can ever describe. They are human and they are spending their hard-earned cash on us that they could be saving or paying off their own bills, but instead they will go into debt for us. That is the sexiest sacrifice someone can make for you. What is there not to fall in love with?

The Domme/sub Bond

Subs obey, honor, and are loyal to the ones they serve. Some dommes take and move on but for others we are very thankful and appreciate them, the talks, the sacrifices, the attention, and the bonds we create. So again, yes falling in love with your sub is possible. They give us things that we could be lacking in our life from other people. They are helping us financially when many may lack their responsibilities. They could be very attractive which makes it easy for us to talk to them, especially doing that makes it more personable and it shows vulnerability. Having the same kinks and fetishes and being your true self with someone.

Conclusion

This place is to sell things but knowing someone beyond that is priceless, there's no limits to this fetish world. I must say when you get a dommes item the sub gets a part of her, smelling the socks or used panties, that's personal, you fall in love with her scent, you fall in love with a part of her. Falling in love can be a temporary thing or long term the choice is yours.

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